#9: Martha Washington

“I have learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions and not upon our circumstances.”

Martha Washington, the very first First Lady of the United States, set the precedent for the role. Her duties included hosting receptions, welcoming visitors, and aiding veterans and the less fortunate. She faithfully stood by her husband’s side during winters in military encampments.

Martha encouraged fellow officers’ wives to support the war effort by saving money and assisting their spouses in any way possible. Despite facing personal tragedy, including the loss of her last son during the Revolutionary War, she adopted two surviving grandsons to fill the void of her own childlessness with George. Though discreet about her political beliefs, she engaged in political discussions and advocated for girls’ education, leaving an enduring legacy.