#18: You’re Not “One of Us” Anymore

Being told that you’re not part of the family by your in-laws can be a painful and isolating experience. Unfortunately, according to a recent survey, almost 5% of people report being told this by their in-laws. It’s a way to create hierarchy within the family and put you at the bottom of the totem pole. 

Of course, family isn’t just about blood; it’s about love and connection. Whether you’ve been officially adopted into the family or not, you are an important and valuable part of your spouse’s life, and that’s all that should matter. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you don’t belong, especially not for voicing your opinion.