In Order For the Marriage to be Accepted, A Blessing Needs to be Given

In the Amish tradition, the path to matrimony takes a unique route – it’s not parental blessings but the church’s approval that carries significance. This time-honored practice unfurls shortly after the couple’s romantic journey begins. Typically, it’s the man who extends the proposal, but its acceptance hinges entirely on the church’s endorsement.

Should the church withhold its approval, the couple’s union is not permitted. However, when the church does bless their engagement, the joyous news reverberates through the community, finding its way into the town’s newspaper. With the church’s seal of approval, the couple embarks on a swift journey to wedded bliss, their nuptials following shortly after.