#38: Surprise!
When you are in a relationship there is so much pressure to get each other good, thoughtful gifts for the holidays. You want it to feel like you have both put in a lot of effort into thinking about the perfect gifts for one another so that you can both have a very Merry Christmas.

There is something about this that almost seems cruel to an extent. If you see a bunch of individually wrapped presents under the Christmas tree you are definitely going to assume that each wrapped thing is a separate present, not a separate part of the overall present…